Hey everyone! Jax here. I am hijacking this blog. I told my mom she needs to do a better job at keeping up with my site. Not like she doesn't have anything else to do.
Let's see. Where do I begin? Oh yeah, my eye surgery. The week before thanksgiving I went to the hospital really early in the morning. Way before the crack of dawn. For those of you who know me, you know that I like to sleep in so my mom wasn't sure what kind of mood I was going to be in after waking me up so early. Of course we were a few minutes late for our check in and we got lost in the hospital and my mom had to ask for directions and this nice lady pointed us to the right place. After signing in around 6:50 am we had to wait in this tiny crowded room that was kind of smelly. Mom decided she was going to pick me up and hold me so I wouldn't get cranky. I love being held. I got so excited a let out a loud excited yell that scared my mommy half to death. It was so funny I did it a second time. It was the first time for me to make that kind of noise and I think I even surprised myself.
After waiting a really long time we were taken upstairs where they put us in a private room. My nurse came in to get me ready and change me into this not so cool gown and then this funny looking man came in to talk to mom and dad about giving me something to make me really sleepy. After the nurse was finished checking me over and probing me with all sorts of things another lady came with a really big bed with wheels on it. But my mom wouldn't let me ride on it cause she wanted to snuggle with me for some reason. I just wanted to take a spin on that thing.
That is the last thing I remember. Guess I fell asleep before they took me in to see the doc cause the next thing I know I woke up back in the room I started in with my same sweet nurse. My eyes were sore and puffy, I had this poky thing taped to my foot, I was hungry and mom and dad were standing over me just staring. I wasn't a happy camper. After being awake for about an hour and getting to eat my nurse took that poky thing out of my foot and my mom got me dressed in some really comfy clothes and we headed home.
For the next week I looked like I had been in a fight with a boy bigger than me. My right eye looked like a raw piece of meat and my left eye not much better. I didn't look so great but my mom said I was still her handsome little man.
It has been almost two weeks since my surgery and my eyes look a lot better! I go back to see my eye doctor on Friday so he can check out my eyes and see how they are doing. So far I think this surgery thing where they tightened my eye muscles has really helped me be able to see more clearly. I don't think mommy has two heads anymore. Now if I could just get my brain to do what I want it to do all will be well.
I had a really good Thanksgiving day with my mom, dad, sisters and nana and poppi. I decided to be sweet that day and give everyone a break. Mom was so happy.
This week I went back to the ortho clinic where this guy drew on my feet and legs with this funny blue pencil. Then he used this metal thing and measured my feet and ankles. Before I knew it he was wrapping my feet and legs up like a mummy. It was really cool. My mom said he was making casts of my feet. After it dried he cut it off and wrote my name on it so they can make me some really cool braces for my feet. Mommy picked out these really cool aliens and spaceship design for my braces. I should get them before Christmas. Mom says they are suppose to help my feet stay straight when she puts me in my jumpy thing. My therapist, Andrea, said I need to be in my jumpy thing everyday so my legs can get stronger. I like it. It is nice not to be laying around on the floor all day trying to see what's going on. My sisters are crazy and I like to see what trouble they are getting into.
According to what the doctors have said about me I shouldn't be doing a whole lot but my family is out to prove them wrong. Hopefully I can defy the odds and show everyone how strong I really am.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Sunday, November 11, 2012
I've Been Ev-a-ry Where, Man....
I can't believe Christmas is just around the corner. The last month and a half have seemed to fly by. October was an extremely busy month for us. We had birthday parties, visits to the pumpkin farm & apple orchard, halloween parties, school parties, trick or treating, doctor appointments, soccer games & practice, dance and gymnastics, physical therapy sessions, orthopedic clinic, haircuts....phew I am exhausted just typing it all out. I am sure I have left something out but I am sure you get the gist of the busyness.
Jax had some rough nights for a few weeks in October and it about wiped me out. Especially with all I had to do running here and there and every where. I think most of his rough patch was due to belly pains and gas but I think we are over the hump and back on track finally. At one point I thought he could be teething and he may have been but the little fella still hasn't gotten any of his teeth in. I have been consistent in offering baby food daily now and he is doing better each time it seems. However, it is a very slow (and messy) process.
As far as development goes we are still at about the same place we were a month ago. There is still no mobility, no reaching for toys, not sitting unsupported but he does appear to be taking in more of his environment. I think he is paying more attention to what is going on around him. We are doing our best to get him up off the floor and more on the level of his peers so he can observe and be part of our daily lives. He really likes looking at red, black & white toys. Things with high contrast are easier for him to see I think.
Which brings me to his eye doctor appointment the end of October. This was our second visit to the eye doctor and we met with the head opthamologist. He was extremely nice, informative and compassionate. He actually held a prism up to my right eye so that I could actually get a glimpse of how Jax sees the world. It was like having double vision and the only way I could focus on anything was to close one eye at time. Which is what Jax is actually doing. His brain is unable to "tell" his eyes to come to the center so he compensates by using one eye at time. This is causing his eyes to turn outward (exotropia). In some cases glasses can be effective but not so in Jax's case. He would have to have such thick lenses that it would be impossible for him to keep them on. At this point our only option is strabismus surgery. It is a pretty common and minimally invasive surgery that Jax will be having Friday, November 16. The doctor will go in behind his eyes and tighten his muscles hoping that it will help bring them more to the center so he can have a chance at seeing the world correctly. We were told that he may have to undergo more than one surgery to correct it but if we don't do the surgery eventually his eyes would permanently turn out. If all goes well the surgery on each eye is 15-20 minutes and he can come home the same day given he does well with anesthesia.
He will be having another neurology visit this month. Those are always my favorite appointments to go to (insert sarcasm here). His seizure medicines were increased the last appointment and Jax seemed to be doing well on them but lately he appears to be exhibiting some more breakthrough seizures. But it is so difficult to determine what is a seizure in little ones. You wouldn't believe it unless you are familiar with seizures but even such small things as lip smacking or chewing can be signs of a seizure. It is so nerve wracking. I watch every little movement or non movement and it makes me down right paranoid most of the time. Usually when I go to these appointments and the doc asks if he has had any seizures I sarcastically laugh on the inside because I am like how the heck am I suppose to know what you say is a seizure. So my answers usually are probably so. I am thinking about taking some video footage and just showing them that so they can see for themselves what is going on.
Another big step we have taken in this journey was taking Jax to his first orthopedic clinic. The orthopedic doctor was also very nice. He said that Jax's muscles and hips appeared to be fairly loose with good movement. He didn't see any real problems at this point. During this visit we also met with a rep who measured Jax for his new kids cart (wheelchair/stroller). I was amazed at how far they have come in the development of this kind of equipment. It really does look like a stroller. Of course the seat and support systems are different but it doesn't look so institutional. We were even able to pick out which color we wanted. So as much as I hated even having to look at these things for my son at least I got to have input on how the thing was going to look. Also discussed getting small braces for his feet/ankles but we are not ready for those yet. Those will come when he is more weight bearing. Jax will be getting his new set of wheels in about four months. It takes a long time for everything to go through insurance and for it all to be ordered to meet his needs. The stroller should fit his needs for about 3 years. And I am hoping this will make him more comfortable when we are out in public.
I will try to post an update on the surgery as soon as I can. But I always like to leave you with some current photos of the little man. Oh, I almost forgot to mention that the first of November I finally got his hair cut. He definitely looks like a little man now! Such a cutie head.
Jax had some rough nights for a few weeks in October and it about wiped me out. Especially with all I had to do running here and there and every where. I think most of his rough patch was due to belly pains and gas but I think we are over the hump and back on track finally. At one point I thought he could be teething and he may have been but the little fella still hasn't gotten any of his teeth in. I have been consistent in offering baby food daily now and he is doing better each time it seems. However, it is a very slow (and messy) process.
As far as development goes we are still at about the same place we were a month ago. There is still no mobility, no reaching for toys, not sitting unsupported but he does appear to be taking in more of his environment. I think he is paying more attention to what is going on around him. We are doing our best to get him up off the floor and more on the level of his peers so he can observe and be part of our daily lives. He really likes looking at red, black & white toys. Things with high contrast are easier for him to see I think.
Which brings me to his eye doctor appointment the end of October. This was our second visit to the eye doctor and we met with the head opthamologist. He was extremely nice, informative and compassionate. He actually held a prism up to my right eye so that I could actually get a glimpse of how Jax sees the world. It was like having double vision and the only way I could focus on anything was to close one eye at time. Which is what Jax is actually doing. His brain is unable to "tell" his eyes to come to the center so he compensates by using one eye at time. This is causing his eyes to turn outward (exotropia). In some cases glasses can be effective but not so in Jax's case. He would have to have such thick lenses that it would be impossible for him to keep them on. At this point our only option is strabismus surgery. It is a pretty common and minimally invasive surgery that Jax will be having Friday, November 16. The doctor will go in behind his eyes and tighten his muscles hoping that it will help bring them more to the center so he can have a chance at seeing the world correctly. We were told that he may have to undergo more than one surgery to correct it but if we don't do the surgery eventually his eyes would permanently turn out. If all goes well the surgery on each eye is 15-20 minutes and he can come home the same day given he does well with anesthesia.
He will be having another neurology visit this month. Those are always my favorite appointments to go to (insert sarcasm here). His seizure medicines were increased the last appointment and Jax seemed to be doing well on them but lately he appears to be exhibiting some more breakthrough seizures. But it is so difficult to determine what is a seizure in little ones. You wouldn't believe it unless you are familiar with seizures but even such small things as lip smacking or chewing can be signs of a seizure. It is so nerve wracking. I watch every little movement or non movement and it makes me down right paranoid most of the time. Usually when I go to these appointments and the doc asks if he has had any seizures I sarcastically laugh on the inside because I am like how the heck am I suppose to know what you say is a seizure. So my answers usually are probably so. I am thinking about taking some video footage and just showing them that so they can see for themselves what is going on.
Another big step we have taken in this journey was taking Jax to his first orthopedic clinic. The orthopedic doctor was also very nice. He said that Jax's muscles and hips appeared to be fairly loose with good movement. He didn't see any real problems at this point. During this visit we also met with a rep who measured Jax for his new kids cart (wheelchair/stroller). I was amazed at how far they have come in the development of this kind of equipment. It really does look like a stroller. Of course the seat and support systems are different but it doesn't look so institutional. We were even able to pick out which color we wanted. So as much as I hated even having to look at these things for my son at least I got to have input on how the thing was going to look. Also discussed getting small braces for his feet/ankles but we are not ready for those yet. Those will come when he is more weight bearing. Jax will be getting his new set of wheels in about four months. It takes a long time for everything to go through insurance and for it all to be ordered to meet his needs. The stroller should fit his needs for about 3 years. And I am hoping this will make him more comfortable when we are out in public.
I will try to post an update on the surgery as soon as I can. But I always like to leave you with some current photos of the little man. Oh, I almost forgot to mention that the first of November I finally got his hair cut. He definitely looks like a little man now! Such a cutie head.
Visit to the Pumpkin Farm
First time falling asleep in the high chair
My sweet angel in the morning. Look at that hair!
At cousin Jack's Ninjago Party
Enjoying riding in the big boy seat at Target
Finally the new do!
Thanks for stopping by!
Misty
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